Happy to be Wrong!
- Jay Dunkle
- Feb 22
- 2 min read
What we can learn from not knowing!
The scene: Steve, Mark and Jay were installing an in-ceiling projection screen on a client site. We were deliberating the best way to go about the cutting and mounting because the ceiling was of a peculiar layout and we needed to ensure the tile grid could be cut correctly and the projected image would accurately fit the screen. During this longer than usual exchange, Steve set a ladder into place with saw in hand and started going to work. I was a little taken back as we hadn’t yet agreed on how to proceed, but Steve took charge and just started working. I’m certain a comment was shot out - “We could be halfway done by now!”
Let’s multiply the aforementioned scenario by multiple devices per install over many years and we, without exaggeration, had thousands of micro-discussions on how and where some piece of Audio/Video equipment should be installed. At times the path was clear and other times it was so unclear that we would need to communicate with multiple parties on how exactly they expected their goals to be accomplished. None of us walked in with such a high degree of assurance on how to complete our mission that we weren’t willing to look, listen and test the ‘ways-and-means’ suggestions of others. As my dear and late friend John Davidson (Nutsy) would say: “I won’t get mad at one guy for making a mistake but the two of you should have known better!”
On an install you checked your ego at the door and just appreciated the fact you had a friend to help with the hopes that a great idea for the day could come from you, them, someone delivering a man-lift, the custodian, or just about anyone with common sense. The source of the ‘correct’ answer didn’t matter, only that we had the right answer. To this end is where the title of this blog originates from. I could have cared less if I had the right answer - thus I was “Happy to be Wrong”. But I was also happy for Steve, Mark or anyone (and I mean - anyone) to be right or wrong. It didn’t matter back then and still doesn’t. If one of my kids has a great idea on how to fix a problem, I’m happy to consider and will, in most cases, not presume my solution is better.
Well Jay…that’s weakness
and lack of confidence.
No…that is strength and wisdom.
Being ready to lead AND follow.
Being willing to speak AND listen. Insisting the best ideas win regardless of who is suggesting it. Offering fresh ideas a space to ruminate while also removing barriers to give it the best chance of success! …That is someone I strive to be, and would follow.
Go…live your Default Life!
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